"With deep insight and sparkling clarity, this book demonstrates that the roots of all abuse are to be found in our own self-betrayal. Paul Ferrini leads us skillfully and courageously beyond shame, blame, and attachment to our wounds into the depths of self-forgiveness. The Silence of the Heart is a must-read for all people who are ready to take responsibility for their own healing" -- John Bradshaw, author of Family Secrets. A breath of fresh air in an often musty and cluttered domain. With sweetness, clarity, and simplicity we are directed to the truth within. I read this book whenever my heart directs, which is often." -- Pat Rodegast, author of Emmanuel's Book I, II and III.