In Homecoming, John Bradshaw introduced the concept of the inner child to a vast new audience. In Creating Love, he showed us how to grow beyond the old myths and rules of relationships. Now, in Family Secrets, he has written his most important book ever on the power of our families to shape our lives. Family Secrets gives you the tools you need to understand your family -- and yourself -- in an entirely new way. This fascinating journey of discovery starts with your life today and takes you back through the conflicts, the strengths, and the weaknesses of your parents' generation -- and even your grandparents'. Using a revealing technique called a "genogram," you'll trace the invisible family patterns that have influenced you. You'll learn about family secrets that are healthy and necessary, and about the "dark" secrets that can limit your wholeness and freedom -- even if you don't know they exist. This work is sometimes painful, but it is always enlightening and ultimately hopeful. With John Bradshaw's guidance, you will come to a new appreciation and acceptance of yourself. You will also be able to build more open, honest, and loving relationships with the people who matter most.