Asked by her Dagara tribal elders to wed a man from her village she did not know, Sobonfu Som=E9 consulted the spirit of her dead grandmother and agreed to become the wife of Malidoma Som=E9, celebrated author and speaker on African ritual and spirituality. In this book, compiled from her interviews and workshops in a format that echoes the Dagara storytelling tradition, Sobonfu applies the wisdom of the Dagara to help us bring Spirit into our relationships.